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How can you tell if a guy is using you?

How can you tell if a guy is using you?

Or maybe it takes him days to respond to your text. This, frankly, is unacceptable. Certainly, you shouldn’t expect him to instantly respond to every text, but if you’re seeing a pattern of him contacting you when he gets around to it, then this may be a sign he’s using you.

What should I do if my boyfriend is using me?

The best thing to do is be super aware of your dating life (and your partner), to make sure you don’t wind up in a one-sided faux relationship that meets all of his needs and none of yours. Here are 15 significant signs he’s using you right now and you don’t even know it.

How to know if someone is using you?

[Read: How to listen to your gut and give strength to your inner voice] Before even looking for the signs that he is using you, open your eyes. Try not to look at him through rose-colored glasses. Look at him from outside your feelings. You need to really look at his behavior objectively.

Is it okay to stay with a guy who is using you?

If you identify some of the signs he’s using you and then you stay with him, well, that’s on you. I get it, though. You may feel like you won’t meet another guy, and maybe there are some really great things about this one (other than the fact that he’s using you). But I’m here to tell you that staying with a guy like this is unacceptable.

Can you tell if a guy is hiding something from you?

It is possible, but the only way to really know for sure is by asking him. While some people have valid reasons for not talking much about themselves, sometimes it can also mean that they are trying to hide something from you. And in a relationship, no one should be keeping secrets.

When do you know a guy is a selfish guy?

A selfish guy will always look out for himself over anyone else, even if that means hurting your feelings. When he continuously lets you down, disappoints you, or leaves you feeling super upset, that’s pretty bad in itself. But when he totally disregards your feelings, you should know that he’s not the right guy for you.