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How do I deal with my boyfriends Aspie?

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How do I deal with my boyfriends Aspie?

The non-Asperger’s member of the relationship gets angry and hurt by the partner’s lack of emotion and understanding, often saying things like, “You just don’t get it!” Because the person with Asperger’s does indeed “not get it,” he or she pulls away and gets angry and defensive, Marshack explains.

What should you not say to Aspie?

10 Things Not to Say to Someone With Asperger’s

  • I didn’t even know you had it!
  • Are/were you in special ed?
  • Do you wish you didn’t have Asperger’s?
  • I’m glad I don’t have autism.
  • Have you considered not having kids Because of your Asperger’s?
  • Do you take medication?

How do I break up with my emotional boyfriend?

Break-up Do’s and Don’ts

  1. Think over what you want and why you want it. Take time to consider your feelings and the reasons for your decision.
  2. Think about what you’ll say and how the other person might react.
  3. Have good intentions.
  4. Be honest — but not brutal.
  5. Say it in person.
  6. If it helps, confide in someone you trust.

Can a man with Aspergers love?

Despite the problems in relationship skills experienced by many people with Asperger’s syndrome, some adults can progress along the relationship continuum and are able to experience romantic and subsequently intimate personal relationships, even becoming a lifelong partner.

How do you help someone with Asperger’s?

5 Tips for Loving Someone with Asperger’s Syndrome

  1. Don’t put the blame solely on your partner. Your partner isn’t solely to blame for your relationship problems.
  2. Learn as much as you can about AS.
  3. Reframe your partner’s behavior.
  4. Be specific about your needs.
  5. Talk about how you’d like to connect with each other.

Do Aspergers have empathy?

Do people with Asperger’s have empathy? Contrary to popular belief, people with Asperger’s do have empathy. They care about how others are thinking and feeling but they often have difficulty putting themselves in other people’s shoes. This is a skill that can be learned over time.

What should you not do with Aspergers?

5 things to NEVER say to someone with Autism:

  • “Don’t worry, everyone’s a little Autistic.” No.
  • “You must be like Rainman or something.” Here we go again… not everyone on the spectrum is a genius.
  • “Do you take medication for that?” This breaks my heart every time I hear it.
  • “I have social issues too.
  • “You seem so normal!