Why do cheaters justify their behavior?

Why do cheaters justify their behavior?

Often people who cheat tell themselves that their behavior is justified because their partner doesn’t really care about them and therefore wouldn’t care if they strayed. They might justify their actions by blaming their S.O. for not showing them enough affection or not seeming to care about them anymore.

What is one thing all cheaters have in common?

Cheaters know how to lie, and know how to lie well. Don’t feel bad if you’ve ever fallen for a cheater’s false promises and lame excuses for canceling plans in the past. “These are lies, of course, so that when they are not with you, they have a great story to draw from.”

What does it mean when a man tells you you cant take a joke?

He tells you, “You’re too sensitive” or “You can’t take a joke.” His blaming statements are very convincing and you wonder if you are over-reacting. You question your ability to reason and you doubt your perception of his abuse. His denial of your experience of his abuse adds another layer to his abuse.

What to do if your husband is saying mean things?

If you are in a relationship in which your husband starts saying the most ridiculous and mean-spirited things, simply walk. Just leave. Walk to another room. Go outside. Or get in the car and drive away. There is nothing good that comes from staying and trying to calm down your husband. If he is going to misbehave, that is his choice.

How can you tell when your husband is having a fight?

You can usually sense when your husband is acting differently. You can often pick up on the warning signals, whether it be his body language or the tone in his voice. You can often spot the signs of a fight brewing, even before your husband gets all worked up. But what does it all really mean?

What should you do if your spouse compares you to another man?

“Belittling your spouse by comparing him or her to another man or woman is a low blow,” she said. “No man or woman wants to hear that you think some other guy or gal is better and that’s especially true for men. It’s emasculating.” Instead of making comparisons, try appreciating what your spouse does do for you.